It’s happened to all of us. Even the non-chronically ill. Someone has suggested a sketchy miracle cure. Maybe they told you eating ‘healthy’ or going organic would have prevented or fixed your condition and will save you from taking your medications?
Why is this so frustrating? Their heart is in the right place is it not? What’s the problem?
When you tell me eating vegetables or a certain trendy food would prevent my condition, it insinuates that my choices have caused my condition and all of the resulting health problems. That if only I had an organic farm and bought a juicer I’d be cancer and ‘pharma’ free.
My cancer is genetic. I could not prevent it, and all of the organic vegetables in the world will not cure it. That’s not really how cancer works. You can’t just throw ‘healthy stuff’ at cancer and make it go away. Individual cancers behave differently and the mechanisms of their growth and death need to be understood on the cellular level for best treatment. No amount of kelp will do that.
Of course, a healthy lifestyle is a benefit to anyone with or without a medical condition, but should not be used in place of treatment. Many of the miracle stories you read about conveniently leave out the part where their “natural miracle cure” also involved some surgery, chemo, and/or radiation. That doesn’t get as many facebook likes now does it? These stories are dangerous misinformation. Please stop sharing them.
Next, can we please stop judging people who have to take medications? This implies I’ve failed some how because my life depends on medication. I would so love to toss all of my pills into the trash. That would be a dream, but guess what? I’d die. I’d suffer greatly, and die shortly thereafter. I cannot trade my medications for coconut oil or anything else on a grocery store shelf (or farm.) Maybe I am a slave to ‘big pharma.’ I like living though. I’ve got a family, so I’ll keep taking my meds and keep living as long as I can. For me, that means meds forever, and I’m okay with that.
I value and protect my health. I do appreciate your concern for me. Cancer isn’t fun, and you want to help. I want there to be a miracle cure too, but rather than cling to false hope, I will keep using treatments that are proven effective. I’d rather not hear any more cures. Instead let’s talk about enjoying life, savoring the moment. That’s the real way you “beat cancer.” One breath, one day at a time.